When most girls look in the mirror all they do is criticize themselves and find every flaw possible! "I'm fat" Says the girl all the boys call "hot". "I'm so ugly" Says the girl that you think is stunning! The reason girls say that sometimes is because they want the sympathy but you may not know that some girls actually think that. I could sit here and say I love myself inside and out but honestly I looked at my reflection and hated myself. Everyone says "You're so short" and then I look at myself and say wow I am short and flat. Then I start to think if boys aren't "asking me out" and aren't liking me then why should I like myself. Which then led to me making myself throw up just because I feel like my body is wrong. The definition of beauty has many meanings to any girl for example "The tannest skin" "The blondest hair with the brightest blue eyes" "The sexiest body". To hear those things then notice that you don't have any of that you feel truly hideous. Girls think of the things that other people say are classified as pretty so much that they don't have time to notice that they are beautiful in their own way. If you deal with a person you know that makes them selves throw up or is anorexic or hurts themselves be open to tell them to stop but when you say stop you need to think that we want to stop to we just do it because it is our way to get out what we hate about us.